By following these tips you will be articulate
to teach both large and small ?
various large and small to teach what?
If you are behind in skill, great philosophical ideas of the Enlightenment was to be boiled for hours with what? If you know a lot of minor and major success in school and work and your family have the same skills in dialogue depends on what If the back of your annoyance of others by not observing whether one or more of these 10 skills ?
1 - Siding
Catch yourself in the comments !
So in terms of being able to defend ourselves , itself a part of the dialogue and . If we say that we know the causes , we can easily say we are defending ourselves . Remember honesty is required here . We suspect that what we say and how we can help others to fulfill our point of view we are advocating a part of ourselves.
2 - position of the learner
Students do not master!
"No , wait ", " do not like Nice , let me tell you ." You probably have heard the saying Gvhaytan of such lot or, conversely, a lot of them are used . Honestly not too guilty . We stood that will come out once more in a world all Chyzdan role in the negotiations appear to be eager to know . We think that we Bldym better , better know and respond to what others say first that it seems to me , is to say "no" and we say to ourselves .
We must admit that we thought we might be subject to Msltym , other new characters that would be interesting for us . Remember that our perception of reality. This is the first interview skills , that we speak instead of " master speaker all Chyzdan " instead of our " students eager to learn, " put something experts say it speaks to the " learner 's position . "
3 - Opening Minds
The various Wave
That's because we trust in Him , our minds are open to receive his word . Human language that you are already familiar with fresh ideas Shvydv temporarily stop your personal vision , that your mind is open in front of others .
Opening the mind is nothing more than a personal trait , a way of communicating with others.
4 - to suspend assumptions
Previous Frztv down the line !
has penetrated . Rapid assessment and immediate orientation in life, create a sense of security . Only if we understand how much we depend on them , we will be able to revise their old patterns of thought and traps aside . We are constantly in contact with the environment and are always valued and judged. For example, is it better or is it ? Which is bigger ? Which is better ? What is more dangerous ? Who is faster or slower ? What is my impact ? So we spent the day with a series of alternate assessments .
Data about the countless decisions we consciously or unconsciously , we choose. We know the truth , as appropriate , build , and fail to recognize that these structures are ours . Decisions and actions by certain Vtsvrhay our assessments of the world have cast a veil on objective facts are determined and implemented . The dialogue can be a subconscious reaction , automatic chain because of mental models have been defeated .
Labels are also subjective judgment . A lot of times we have to label each other prejudices and Hmanzavyh Frddygr deal with . In this case, his abilities, and other characteristics are ignored and the characteristics of the person closing. If every human being has the potential for numerous properties that are in good condition can flourish . Know yourself and make assumptions when they stop talking .
5 - Speaking from the heart
The heart wants to say Tngt !
It 's too hard. Ourselves that we 're actually talking about , without being couched in sarcasm and pretend it Bpychym . A simple but profound relationship , exactly the same principle originates from the heart speak . " It's not something that I would bother him " the most important obstacle to a belief that we are speaking from the heart . A more sophisticated flare to speak from the heart saying , is that we just talk to the attention of others , not for ourselves saying . They speak from our hearts , so as to make the selection .
6 - Listen
Hear rid of John
what did you say , I was not aware you "," I 'm not going to tell you another thing , "" I 've heard you talking to you . " If you like this one in your conversation about those who just do not listen to what the other person usage . Listening Listening is different from hearing a physiological function , but listen , we understand what the other person said. Often, when we listen , pay attention and do not have enough presence of mind .
More physical presence . We talk as if we follow the opposite side , but the other things we think . We show that we listen to ( with a nod of the head , for example ) , they do not interrupt other words , he 'd keep his word to us , that wherever we understood the question . The distance between the listening and telling me that they are actually listening techniques feasible .
7 - observer of his
Look at you !
" Being an observer of his own. " Last skill is to create a dialogue that we will thrive . These skills can be considered as the sum of all other skills . To practice these skills need to be constantly aware .we should try to be careful what we do .
Apparently, apart from their own , and we look up to .
We are not perfect and can not be earlier based on all the events and characters to be interpreted .
When self Nazrym , remember that we can defend the constructive comments and for being clear about it subject to express Fkryman roots of our characters and to achieve mutual understanding and the Council seek the views of others a lot .
8 - Respect for All
The dialogue and mark !
The second interview skills " full respect " is.we would . What others may say or think if we do not like but can not deny their legitimacy as a human being .compared to humans .
9 - The Searchers
Question NOW !
When a question is simple and honest dialogue, a very good impression on the other side . Asking questions shows interest to our side and helps us understand ourselves is by what it says . Expert dialogue with the skills to say " Jvyayy or job seekers ."
Remember seekers , if not carefully implemented , may create the impression that the others do we interfere with their work . Also remember to look for a good excuse not understand the lives and thoughts of others .
10 - Do not Rush
Be the accelerometer !
Gentlemen ! Ladies ! And especially you guys ! Sometimes the opponent is struck by just talking to him . Sometimes I give people talk and you just listen , see , and let the other party know that you just want to listen to no hurry to dictate alone solutions summarily mind . Sometimes, while first-graders want our answers before we understand the problem of maintaining and say so . Do not rush and listen to it .
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Books and other things
All you want to know more about these skills , you Book " dialog " by Mercede honest Mvss·hamam Musa and get it published . But this book is not yet public distribution and its preparation should Khvdmvss·h call. If the contents of the book, however , you can get it at this Institute will hold a workshop to discuss the practical practice. In fact, this book is considered the same book, the same workshop